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If you can't get along with your ex, communicate in writing

One of the most difficult things about divorcing with kids is the fact that you can't really get away from your ex. No matter how badly your marriage ends, you are going to have an ongoing relationship with your former spouse.

You will, at the very least, need to see one another for custody exchanges. Ideally, for the best outcome for your kids, you can even agree to some overlapping custody or visitation. This can include holidays, birthdays or special events, such as graduations, so that you can both be present for these important moments. For some couples, minimizing the direct contact you have is one way to lessen the potential for conflict.

Learn how to maximize supervised visits with the kids

It can be a blow to receive only supervised visitation with your children during or after a divorce. But savvy parents can learn to use these supervised visits to their advantage.

It's possible that, in time and with the continued success of the visits, parents may be awarded unsupervised visits with their kids. While it might be discouraging to realize that a judge feels you need supervision when you interact with your children, keep in mind that all is being done with your kids' best interests at heart.

Can Facebook ruin your marriage?

You got on Facebook long before you got married. You and your spouse talked on it back when you were in college and you first started dating. You shared your wedding photos on the site, and now you share pictures of your children. It's a great way to stay in touch with other people and let them know how your life -- and your marriage -- is going.

But could it also be ruining your marriage? Could it be the reason your spouse ends up filing for divorce?

Do these things before telling your children about your divorce

Once you and your spouse decide in favor of divorce, it's time to turn your attention to the process itself. While doing so, don't overlook the importance of taking good care of your children. Their well-being is extremely important during this transitional period.

Here are a few things you should personally do before telling your children about your divorce:

  • Plan it out: This is not a discussion that you can afford to mess up. Your children rely on you for stability, so you need to give them a sense of peace during this conversation. With the right plan guiding you, it's easier to say the right things at the right time.
  • Find the best time in your schedule: Telling your children about your divorce isn't something you do on a whim. You need to choose the appropriate time and place, so look at your schedule to ensure that you find a slot that works.
  • Prepare for questions: Even if you're clear as to why you're getting a divorce and what comes next, it doesn't mean your children are on the same page. They may have a variety of questions, all of which you need to address to the best of your ability.
  • Create a plan to maintain routines: Your children are used to their daily routine, so do whatever it takes to maintain this (within reason). If too many things change at once, your children will find it more difficult to adjust.
  • Get a support system in place: It's not always easy, but talk to your soon-to-be ex-spouse about the ways you can work together to ease your children through the divorce process. Also, share your situation with friends, family, babysitters, teachers and anyone else of importance. The sooner you get a support system in place, the better off you'll be.

Do police officers really have a higher divorce rate?

You work in law enforcement. It's a tough job, but it's something you have always felt passionate about. Your father was a police officer, and you are following in his footsteps. You know how important it is to have a safe, civil society. You want to do your part.

However, you also know that your father and mother got divorced when you were a teenager. You have heard people say that the stress of the job is too much for many couples, so police officers have a higher divorce rate than the average population. Is this true?

Protecting custody time with your child is essential

Parents who are new to sharing custody of their child often have a hard time adjusting to these changes, no matter how much they hope to keep things amicable with the other parent. Some parents take this struggle too far, however, and significantly impact the custody time of the other parent. This violates their custody order in the process.

Courts do not consider custody orders flexible, and neither should parents. This is not to say that parents never have unexpected conflicts, which all of us encounter, but that parents must understand that their custody order is legally binding.

How to effectively ask your spouse for a divorce

If you've made up your mind that divorce is the only answer to your marital problems, there's something you need to do: Discuss your thoughts on the future with your spouse.

It's never easy to ask your spouse for a divorce, especially if this person doesn't know your true feelings. Even so, the longer you hold it inside, the more difficulties you'll face when the time finally comes to have this conversation.

4 tips to help your children adjust to life after your divorce

Creating a nurturing environment for your children after a divorce can help them to thrive as they adjust to the new way of life. It isn't always easy to figure out what is going to encourage them to enjoy the way things are now. Often, parents need to use a multifaceted approach.

While you are figuring out what works for the kids, you might be discovering what you need to do for yourself. As you become accustomed to your new role as a single parent and your children adjust to the divorce, you will learn what works and what doesn't. Think about these points as a springboard to discovering the methods that work for your situation:

Start thinking about custody, school schedules and holidays now

Most kids in the United States have the summer off from school. The summer is often a time when families take vacations and enjoy the great outdoors.

For divorced families, the back-to-school season can be a source of conflict. It may have been easy to remain flexible about your family situation during the summer when your kids are available all day.

Dividing retirement accounts and adjusting plans in a GA divorce

Figuring out how to split up assets in a divorce is commonly a point of contention between spouses. Many times, people focus on dividing the house. After all, the marital home is probably the single biggest investment you have made during your marriage.

There are other valuable assets that you shouldn't overlook, including your retirement fund or pension. Many people have preconceived notions about what will happen to their retirement in a divorce, but many times those ideas are not based in reality.